Lying.
We all know what it is,Some of us prefer to call it as "Fibbing" or call it "Stretching the Truth"
but when someone lies to you; it really makes you question the trust you have in your relationship and if what their really saying is true or not.
Recently i lost a friend from a lie,I will not say any names but lets just say this common name after Richard isn't the only name that means dick. Its great to lie if your helping a friend out and you need to get to their ex boy/girlfriend breaks up with them for no reason or if you have a stalker and need help then its okay to lie. Although if you have a stalker please notify the police right away i don't want you in any danger while your reading this or if you feel unsafe in the comforts of your own home where you see a dangerous balding man with a gun or something.
Back to what happened,when you notice someone is avoiding you for no reason at all you have to say something and try to sort it out or else you'll end up blaming yourself and stood so low as to not wanting to exist,i know i did that. I had a rough Tuesday-Wednesday night. Yesterday i thought i would see if i could help for the party they were having,he didn't write down it was 18+ and so i was all right with that. Not angry,just upset he didn't put that earlier. So then i asked if they could come to the Hindu India festival in Hartford (A common area) They said they'd go to because it sounded like fun (Which it is) So i went to ask again and this time they said they had to go to a family reunion and couldn't make it. Which i didnt find suspicious at all during that time because i was clearly tired from walking on the trail and to the park in my town.
Until,This morning at 11am i wake up from a cupcake incident and laugh about it so after that, i go check my email and what do i see? A comment on the community group i'm in. So here i am,thinking he has a family reunion..this doesn't make any sense at all.But why does it sound familiar and why does it say their going to Bristol around that time,I thought at first that he wouldn't lie to me and then it hit me; He would lie. He has used this lie before to get out of going to the mall with my friend jahnel and her boyfriend a.k.a. my uncle (Long story short: My grandpa couldn't keep it in his pants and ended up marrying a nice woman who's my step grandmother. My real grandmother is unmarried from my dad's side)
Back to the story,I finally connect why it sounded so familiar, They've used it before! I wanted to give him a fair chance to tell the truth so i texted him and asked him what time the reunion started and ended,i then replied by giving the times of that event in bristol. So later on,i get a reply stating that its an all afternoon thing. So i say "2 hours to drive down to bristol and stay until 5pm when you get there?" He then responds with lies. I try to hint him that i know whats going on,Then out of nowhere BAM! HE TYPES LIKE A PYSCHOPATH AND SCARES THE SHIT OUT OF ME WITH HIS LANGUAGE. THAT WAS UNCALLED FOR!
He claimed that some BS happened between us What BS? i ask. No respond. Its not like he WAS in love with me and its not my fault i didnt want to date him and HE ruined any potential friendship we had left. I gave him a chance to tell the truth before it was too late,Yet he thought the lie was worth it.
Do you really think I'm stupid enough to just let this type of thing go?
Do you really think i wouldnt think about it or check the message boards?
Why couldnt you just tell the truth? Whats so hard about that?
This is why he will NEVER get a girlfriend.
Ladies,stay away from this one!
Lying hurts,Don't do it.
Just be Honest.
In the end,i was saddened today and it made me depressed. So thats what had happened this week!
The act of a lie is so much worse then you think and could hurt many in the process,This is one of the reasons why i have trust issues.
~Thanks for reading~
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