6 Things i hate about care.com and These experiences could HAPPEN TO YOU NEXT if you're not careful!

Thursday, January 5, 2017


Have you ever wanted to work and put money into your bank account but instead shot yourself in the foot? 

I have, Twice to be exact, and I can tell you from personal experience that it does not make you feel any better especially if it was one after another and you didn't get the wake-up call until it was almost too late or considered too late to do anything about it.
As an unemployed student from the first time I had turned 16 nearly three years ago to now; an 18-year-old going on 19 in some months and days away who still hadn't had her first job is bad for anyone especially for someone in my age group. (Mid/Late Teens to Young adult) that would be from the moment you turn sixteen years of age until possibly early or mid-twenties.

****disclaimer****
The first part was written just a few months before my nineteenth birthday, I am now currently close to twenty years old, about six months to be exact, so I'm assuming this was written in the 2015-2016 school year. 
Aka the actual year, I graduated, but that's a different issue.

The memory isn't as fresh as it was when I was first writing this post considering how long it has been and how hard I was dedicating myself to do A, B, C, D, and the rest of the alphabet I've been unable to touch any of these posts.
Back to the story, well actually let me start it first...
It began on a Wednesday, I was searching for a job, and I was getting desperate from applying to places all throughout the city and in the near by area. I searched through newspapers and scrolled online for hours until i see it, "Babysitter Needed for (Town Name)" Immediately i thought to myself "Hey. I have experience with kids, I did watch a sixth grader from girl scouts that one time and got paid very well. And I watch or atleast, keep track of the children at the temple. Plus there was that time i watched the neighbors who lived next door, although i didn't get paid..i should've." I remember rambling that entire dialogue; only because that would be something i'd say even now. and so i clicked the link towards the site. Little did i know what was happening next.

Now, I consider myself smart-I was and i still am an intelligent young woman when it comes to bookwork and those around me. For someone who just missed graduation with her own class by a year due to circumstances it would only make sense that I'm still suffering from the trauma I've recieved a long with the dissapointment and feeling like a failure I felt like if I got a job doing something I know or even watching pets would actually start the healing process and help move forward from the problems that held me back.
The Link to the site was care.com, and it seemed like an easy website to navigate before creating an account, although afterward, it becomes more confusing and impossible to understand.

When I first joined and created a profile I had some things I already didn't like about it:
1.You have to continually update your schedule.
If you don't update your calendar for the month, you'll never be able to talk to a potential client. You HAVE to keep repeating this process for month after month, how can anybody willingly do that when it takes possibly over an hour to fill out the form required and the hours you're available for something you don't know is happening yet. You can't schedule a relative passing away or childbirth.
2. If you want exposure, Pay for it.
Yes, Pay them money, so you're assuring everybody that you don't have a criminal record via background check, get featured in search results, have a "free" motor vehicles check and so much more 'exciting' benefits. 
YES, YOU THERE, THE DESPERATE CHUMP LOOKING FOR A JOB, GIVE US EITHER $20,$15 OR $10 OF THE MONEY YOU BARELY HAVE FOR EITHER 6 MONTHS,3, MONTHS OR A MONTH! ONLY WHEN IT HAS ITS 50% OFF HOLIDAY SPECIAL THOUGH BUT OTHER THAN THAT ITS STILL $20.
Does that sound worth it to you, investing in a piece of shit site that should already have features for newcomers and explain how the site works and why you need to do these things in a more simple yet understanding way?
3. These people are the top (blank) in your area!
How is this supposed to help anybody? 
telling us who the top dogs are terrible for any newcomer who just wants a job. it really makes you question especially in this day and age if these people are even real.
ARE THESE PEOPLE REAL? 
I don't know, because no one messages through their system or even talks to one another especially if you're searching for a job or just trying to inquire about a possible option.
4. Moderator Filters, Lackthereof.
Speaking of the messaging system,
Their "Blog" how they're shitty. For more information on this please read the original article i got inspired from, it helped me realize that earlier on when i was starting this post many years ago is that i was fed up. You should be too after reading all of this. LINK on PAGE 2
5. Interested in a listing? Too bad.
No responses to any inquiries made.
you'll never get any replies or answers, and if you do get an inquiry its 100% Scams,Frauds or a gateway into illegal prostitution into many countries to smuggle some crack cocaine.

6. This website is a fraud: or it feels like one.
How you know when a website is a scam-
  1. The Domain Name – A lot of fraudulent websites will use a domain name similar to a brand name. I have seen fake sites related to Calvin Klein, Nike, Buffalo, and more recently, Salomon. These domain names might be www.nikesuperdiscounts or www.buffalocollection or www.salomonshop (these are not real sites, but examples). If a company has a trademark on their name, their website usually matches the company name. Another thing is, You can easily Buy a domain from GoDaddy.com for a cheap price and that includes .com, .org, .net and many more addresses to trick you into thinking it must be legitimate
  2. No Contact InformationIf the website does not have a contact us page, or it if does and it only offers a form to fill out, this is a strong indicator of fraud. Any company offering products or services; should have a place of business (location) as well as a phone number and email to contact them. If none of this information is available, then they likely just want your credit card info. Here is an example I found from a fake website that does not have any contact details. Although the website provides so many "helpful" tips and guides through their shitty blog a supposed hotline is available via phone number. However, if it is like the rest of the site and those who use it, it's untrustworthy. 









3.Check the Grammar and Spelling -
 If the fake website is attempting to present itself as an American or Canadian business, they will usually use English text. However, there will quite often be horrible grammar and spelling mistakes on the website. Many of these mistakes would be obvious to a native speaker of English; excessive use of poor grammar and spelling should be an instant red flag. Honestly, this is the most obvious of the bunch, unless you're how I am and give the benefit of the doubt after all, America is a huge melting pot and to comment on someone's poor English would be rude and it would be as if you were mocking them especially if you have terrible english yourself or if they have a disorder.

These are just three of the seven i found whilst researching this and reading an article that WILL BE SOURCED BELOW ON PAGE TWO ALONG WITH EVERYTHING THAT WAS TALKED ABOUT. The italic's are how i viewed these items from the author and i do admit, she's pretty cool.
I thought i had a cleaning job shortly after i signed up on the website.
I assumed the best in people which was a tragic mistake. For one, not everyone has the best english and two, they were so vague which i was cautious of. Blinded in my desperation i accepted a cleaning job and then another one to work as an assistant and because of a non-existing bank account #. I almost lost the very little money i have/(had). Luckily the banker and another woman interfered otherwise, i would have lost everything. That's just before the constant harrassment of the scammers who want to steal your money don't use the websites to "contact" you but instead sends emails and text messages because they know you'll respond. but who's to say that you wouldn't respond using the the sites messaging system? I'm assuming its because care.com shows your phone number and email if you wish to get any exposure.
The only two experiences i had from the website nearly took what little that exists in my account.
And shortly after, More messages from these D-Bags and AssHats kept coming along.
Those were only some of the problems with this breeding ground of scammers and those commiting fraud. Its worrying to see that not only are those who are looking for jobs getting tricked but children are being put in danger because of this and nothing is being done about it.

If we all group together we could prevent many scams and any possible child endangerment or animal abuse from happening. I'm starting a Change.org Petition to have Care.com Removed as i am not the only one who experienced/experiences these types of issues. Its Misleading and It's a low thing to do to those of all ages.

        Click here to sign this petition and end the madness

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6 things i hate about care.com and These experiences COULD HAPPEN TO YOU if you're not careful! Cont.

Cont. Of First Page

And to make matters worse they blame it on you!
This article from their blog is more than enough proof to prove my point.
https://www.care.com/c/stories/2559/the-10-most-common-mistakes-made-on-carecom/

DO NOT USE THIS WEBSITE.
GO AGAINST IT.
Start the revolution.

Links to my sources:
Original article: https://blog.webnames.ca/how-to-determine-if-a-website-is-a-fake-fraud-or-scam/
.http://www.highya.com/care-com-reviews
https://www.change.org/p/richard-blumenthal-take-care-com-off-the-internet-for-breeding-scammers-and-child-endangerment/share_for_starters?just_created=true
https://www.care.com/c/stories/2559/the-10-most-common-mistakes-made-on-carecom/
https://gethuman.com/contact/Care-com

1) Courage- My Reflection

Wednesday, August 17, 2016

Entry #1 for self-discovery

If I told you that the reason why I'm choosing to type this online was to start a discussion,would you believe me? Neither would i. I just want to get out my thoughts on what I've thought about so far for the book "Big Magic: Courage Living Beyond Fear" and I do have to admit that at first, I thought this would help inspire me to write as one of those "HEY! I'LL SHOW YOU A WAY TO REMOVE YOUR WRITERS BLOCK YOU ARE CURRENTLY GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW SINCE CLEARLY NOTHING ELSE IS WORKING AND THIS IS YOUR LAST RESORT TO SPEND MONEY ON AN ITEM THAT MAY NOT WORK" books but I was wrong. This book is about self-discovery and Elizabeth Gilbert, the author of Eat,Pray,Love states that very clearly. I was intrigued because I had never bought an item that would help me bring back what I had felt like I had lost and this book CAN actually do that,however, I'll be testing that out for myself through this written series.

If one person read this or many people read this and want to give it a go with me, I highly encourage it.
This Post may be a long one,please prepare yourselves.

  My fear is unoriginal,what I fear is unoriginal. to fear darkness,strangers,spiders,clowns and anything else around the same level. In the world of harry potter during your third year you learn to confront and face your fears in defence against the dark arts using the spell and/or charm Riddikulus to turn something terribly negative,what you fear or your boggart into something positive. 
It's strange that after learning a few short essays in the "Big Magic" book can change your perspective on what seems so big at the time,It's a nudge to unlock your potential that's hidden away from yourself in order to fit into today's roles and standards of society. Well, guess what? Screw that! We shouldn't have to fit into the roles we're given and the unnecessarily high standards regardless of our age,gender,sexuality and everything else in between. 
I want to rediscover what I do have with the courage I now know had always existed and what I'm gaining along the way from this quest for our inner-self treasure (and hopefully a way to beat writers block while we're at it!) 
Fear is boring,but my fears are unoriginal.
What are your fears? Do you consider them to be original?
Leave a comment and share this post with your friends if you feel like you've gained anything or felt related to in any way and discuss.
Final Thoughts: Fear is good to have and it can be useful which is why it's instilled in us. Learning to live with it is another subject, though.
Creativity follows you wherever you head so, fear follows.
Like Elizabeth Gilbert wrote in the letter to her fear is that Fear is not allowed to help make decisions or control your life,you can have your voice heard as well as a place in this family of ours but you will not be the deciding factor in whether I do this thing,that thing or anything else. 
Let's get ourselves back to who we were and let's get back to writing once again before we were put in boxes,chained and dealt with those terrible trials and hurdles in order to get to how we are and relearn who we are today. 

Not So Sweet

Sunday, August 7, 2016

Not So Sweet

a slam poem by Lindsay R.

"i'm a sweet girl who's going through alot right now. but Im willing to help with anyone's problems."
Let me explain a few things dearie, what you heard is clearly different from what you're hearing. 
You are not a sweet girl- you are the girl who cried pregnant about a million times throughout high school 
you're a compulsive liar who can't even keep a steady goal unless forced to.
and I'm sure you are going through a lot right now,no don't doubt about it in my mind
 not even the slimmest percentage.
Coming from the girl who just cried and constantly spread lies about others you claim to know but just used for your own selfish purposes.
You didn't have many friends and yet you were still popular around both parts of school
despite the rumors I still thought you were cool. I gave you the benefit of the doubt and you proved those rumors to be right. When you refused to go to the cops when you were raped 
by Chris, the man who lied about his age and two children to you. 
The man who torn your clothes apart and knocked on my door in tears that hot summer day.
You didn't give yourself a chance to any treatment at all to recover from the emotional trauma you may have had or actually do have. 
your parents are well off financially,they have the money to provide you help. 
you couldn't have had a normal conversation with them explaining what was going on. Don't you know that a mother always believes their child who said they were raped and abused sexually?
You refused to help yourself once again,but this time in the past,without self-respect and your whore ways
you could have had a better life for yourself. 
You had so many options,so many opportunities.
I realize you were just saying that to push those who want you to be at your best away.
You say that I'm the liar,but you had claimed to be domestically abused 
by a childhood mutual friend of ours and my brother.
There wasn't any evidence. But you constantly worried me so.
When I started distancing myself from you that's when I began to grow.
Observing your terrible choices and decisions as well as the consequences that came,
I am glad that my life has changed.
From a girl who can't accept help when she knows she truly needs it and lies compulsively.
Anyone who trusts you,your child who has to grow up with you.
will. be ashamed.
This is the girl who cried pregnant to one of the only honest few friends she had,claiming I've lied before
when you know I haven't.
have I held my breath?
Yes.
Have I lied?
No.
to the girl who cried pregnant, if you needed help up from a crumbling bridge
specifically the one on the rusted train tracks and unsturdied metal.
I wouldn't reach out my hand as you beg for mercy
because if i did you would personally be lying breathless inside a hearse on your way to New Jersey.
you say your brother and father had sexually abused you and that could be true, coming from the girl who cried pregnant but "She tends to lie a lot" what do I know?
i know that the girl who cried pregnant is an emotional abuser.
She  is a sociopathic User.
I beg you to stay away from her to prevent yourself from this scenario or she'll be spreading lies about you or someone you know.
the girl who cried pregnant Carrie Ann Beimler is a lie.
she claim's I want attention?
but I wouldn't give two shits if she died.

R.I.P Severus

Thursday, January 14, 2016
Alan Rickman was a wonderful man,actor,husband and a plentiful amount of characters,however I know him as the actor whom had portrayed Severus Snape from J.K.Rowlings children's novel series Harry Potter.
His death was announced earlier today that he had passed from cancer at the age of 69. 
'69' is known as a cursed age to most of the entertainment industry, David Bowie who had passed yesterday 1/13/16 is another example of the cursed age. 
Update: I've mixed up the ages. I was thinking about the 27 club but that doesn't mean that the 69 death club will be shutting its doors. This may end up being the modern 27 club.


Halfway through the battle,First step into the war

Tuesday, December 9, 2014



My heart feels tingly,not the kind when you like someone or your on the highway heading towards disneyland or disney world but the kind of tingle where you have a bad feeling with yourself.
Although i know i'm probably over-reacting stupidly because i have emotions and i've pretty much had trouble falling asleep last night by forgetting to take my medicine and staying up all day; I can't help but feel fear.

I will openly admit i'm scared,stressed and overwhelmed.
I'm pretty no extremely worried that my crush will like someone else and want to form a relationship with them and although i know that wont happen,i don't exactly know for sure. I did expect the day to happen when Zero (We'll call him that) decides to have sex and that i'm completely 100% on its just,i know how relationships of friends-with-benefits turn into. you'll start missing what a real relationship is like and especially if you've never had one you could mix up the two.
For someone like me with trust issues,Anxiety and mild depression i struggle with every day life because i know that life can just throw a fast ball at you when you're not expecting it. Its just if the power happens to go out while your printing out an important paper. Its scary but you can't help but panic.

For this anxiousness,worry and fear its coming from within me and i realize that,i know i'm scared of getting hurt again and i keep thinking there's nothing i can do. Zero can gladly have sex because its just sex but i fear it will develop into something more.

My heart calmed down after i wrote that,i feel much better now.
Thanks for reading if you did read all of this non-sense.
Have a cookie.

Imaginary Friend Letter #1- To Casper,With Love

Sunday, September 28, 2014

Dear Casper,

I know you think i abandoned you when i didn't,i've been stuck,trapped and isolated from the isles of imagination for almost a full month now and i really could use your help. From your Deep Brown Hair and sea green eyes.I know it sounds weird to call upon you and summon you so randomly; Especially since i know you're in hawaii trying to help out your new friend Ellie. How's that going along anyway?
Apparently one of my friends,Lyudmila,the one from russia knows how to fly,the first thing you do is run off of a cliff,after that you have to scream "Yolt" its supposed to prevent you from dying. But if you scream and jump off a cliff how does it prevent you from dying just from screaming a special word? I don't think we'll ever know the answer but i am trying to retrieve this suspicious secret,Investigations are currently undergoing on for this sexy russian secret agent.

I was also wondering,If you could create a whole new world one sort of similar to adam and eve and the (Maybe) beginning of time what would it be like? The whole reason why i'm asking is because i've recently started watching this new reality show,I know "What? You? Watching a reality show?" its not a normal thing for me to do but then again neither is watching project runway and starting a pinterest. I've decided to give both some old and new things a try considering how i am going to be dating a handsome MO-FO Sometime in college and having different experiences. I've also realized how i grew up and matured thanks to an english assignment i still need to complete,and its actually a really depressing story. I'll tell you that story another time although i'm sure you already know it;you are a figment of my imagination after all.
I'd like to hear what you think about it and how your Utopia would be and look like.

Until i summon my dear fallen angel again,
To Casper,
With love,
Rin/Saouri/Lindsay.